Thursday, July 9, 2009

Selecting The Right Mate

When we are looking for a mate, we tend to zero in on those whose ethnic, religious, economic, and educational background closely approximates our own; size and other physical attributes are also significant factors. Where we're least likely to match up with a similar person is in the area of compatibility. And this can lead to trouble. Personality factors are not as easy to observe as height and hair color, and people don't usually reveal their true selves until after the honeymoon.

They are usually on their best behavior during courtship. People of opposite personalities often attract each other in relationships; the initial thouht is that one personality rounds out the other. Unfortunately, the outcome is often to the contrary. In time, one person begin to try to change the other.

In modern urban societies, mate selection is done and by parents, as in times past, but by the couple themselves, often through chance encounters or introduction by friends.

Monday, June 22, 2009

Success Difficult to Duplicate

Do you like to duplicate? I think almost 99 % of you like to duplicate, because duplicate is a simple work, just copy and then paste to other place. Do you getting success? Almost 99 % not success from just duplication. Why? Because this is a simple work. As simple as you to touch your keyboard.

Actually not just that factor, why a duplication work is not getting a good result. Not just because of your work or program is very simple, but any other think that you never consider about this job effect.

So I also will ask again, do you like if your job is being duplicated? I think the answer is about 99 % don’t like, or OK no problem but with any condition. It’s actually mean that you don’t like if your article being duplicate, you don’t like if your Blog is being duplicated, you don’t like if your Novel being duplicated, even your Best Seller Novel is being duplicated even though have sold for millions of copy.

Actually getting success affected by several factor:

  1. Work Hard
  2. Work Smart
  3. Team Work
  4. Original
  5. Destiny

Other bad factor to make fall:

  1. No Supporting
  2. Others Blame or other cuss
  3. Destiny

So if your work is not success may because of one of those criteria not fulfill with your work.